There was a shift from joint family to smaller and single family in the late 70s and 80s of last century. Now this past two decades or so, men and women going after careers at the expense of family, is causing lots of issues: for folks with kids, no role models to look up to and no genuine connections with parents. For folks without kids, tough to get one and if they get it they get it at an older age with lots of complications, and this is being seen in drop of birth rate in many countries around the world.
One more theory is that being surrounded by all gadgets through the day, all emanating EM waves, does cause issues in reproduction, just like the way Mobile towers killed the entire Sparrow population in cities.
With media offering viewers with all sorts and combinations of relationships possible, this is destroying the very foundation of a nurturing strong family. Global exposure kills local healthy culture and cuisines, and this adds to the confusion. This breeds strong individualism in the guise of personal freedom, that leads to a generation without any meaningful connection to any relationships and being disassociated with any worthwhile community, thus leading to more isolation, added to the addiction of social media that keeps one aloof by design.
So proper parenthood is becoming a challenge. 30 and 40 something facing serious health issues and with technology moving at a much faster pace, facing hopelessness as well. Not sure where this is leading us as a whole but something we need to address properly and sensitively.
Tag: culture
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Parenthood and Career in modern times
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Tamil History reinforced
Ponniyin Selvan – great Tamizh movie, well done and comes close to what Amarar Kalki had written. After seeing it, I did come to a realization that we had been forced to learn only about Mughals and Britishers in our History classes in middle and high school, rather than know and understand our own heritage and rich history. Raja Raja Chola and his son Rajendra Chola had the world’s largest naval fleet in and around the 12th century when they went to many SE Asian countries and established Hinduism there. This movie should be the wake-up call , we need to start redoing our school’s history syllabus to know and understand more about our rich heritage and culture and know more about the conquests and the cultural side that were nourished during that period between 5th and 14th century. I hope we have the inscriptions for this or we need to start discovering them and put the real story together in an authentic way. Time to wake up is now, know more about our local and Indian History and not to read more about the invaders who plundered us.
I will certainly like the TamilNadu government to look into this and change the syllabus to reflect our pride in the middle and high school history lessons. By the way, why are the Nagapattinam copper plates in Leiden Museum – time to bring them back here. Time to act and change the script is NOW.