Four things are important to life for any professional, however big or busy they are:
- You need to belong – everyone belongs to a community, and one needs to contribute back to the community in terms of time (more than money). For every food wasted, think about a deprived child who does not have any good for days together. Get a sense of responsibility and let your actions speak a lot about yourself, without expecting anything in return. It is not only about you and yours but others as well, care about them. Volunteer at a local school, or a community centre or a specific interest group.
- You need to be available – always have time for your family and closest friends who would be with you through your life. Never say no or delay meeting up with them. Drop that ego and always have an ear and eye for them. It is said that people who socialize more have a healthier life. Go on vacations, short or long with these folks regularly – at least twice a year.
- Stay healthy – how much ever money one has, it cannot bring back your youth nor can it guarantee your life. Dedicate ten hours each week for one sport you love to play and one passion or hobby you love to pursue (can be even music). Once in a while, do an activity that is hard, provided your health agrees, like hiking or rafting, so that you satisfy your adrenaline rush properly.
- Reward yourself – if a dog deserves a treat for doing something nice for you, then you need to reward yourself to having achieved something – small or big. Do it often, even at a small scale like indulging in an ice cream or a Cheesecake, upon achieving something credible that you set out for. If you manage a team, yes, have some small kudos functions often to highlight the achievements of the team – I call it an energy booster. AT the end of the day, we all work for getting something, money or otherwise.